To be continued.... continues

So it has been almost two years since I stopped mid sentence of my last post and write, "to be continued". So let's get back to where we left off and what caused me to stop writing.  Because so much time has passed I may not get in as much detail or even remember some of the things I was going to say, but I will do my best to catch you up. So I left off talking about my last round of IVF.

After out final round of IVF, matt and I were finally given good news! It worked!  Matt and I knew Addie would be super excited because she wanted so badly to be a big sister, but we wearnt sure how Tate would take the news. He really wanted a dog and knew if we had a baby, the dog would have to wait.

When we broke the news to Tate and Addie, Addie was of course excited.  Tate three himeself on the floor and said "NOooo! I wanted a dog"! After a while he said he would be ok with it as long as the baby was a boy.

I was super excited but a little nervous about starting over. The space between this child and Addie was going to be about 7 1/2 years. I knew I would not go through this again and so unless we got twins, this baby would be all by them self. I think part of me knew things would work out how they should and god knew that too.

I kept teasing matt that part of me felt like we were going to have twins and both embryos took. He brushed it off and reminded me the doctor said the canes were slim. Sure enough we went in for our first ultra sound and their were two separate sacs. Because it's been so long, I do t remember exactly how the doctor told us, but it was something like "here is the baby and here is the baby". I think matt was a little in shock.  After we left we sent a picture of the ultra sound to matts parents, who Really didn't know how to read the ultra sound. I don't think matts mom ever had any since it wasn't required back then or even available with most her kids.  When they saw the picture, they didn't know what it was and CLAUDE thought it was a picture of a squirrel. I'm not sure why he thought that, but we got a good laughs out of it. He thought the two sacs were the squirrels eyes. So when we finally told him it was our ultra sound, we had him guess what the two dots (eyes) were. It took both CLAUDE and Coleen forever to figure it out. We may have had to even told them. Of course they were super excited.

We then headed to ny sisters house to show the kids and my family. Again, Addie was beyond excited and Tate just wanted to hurry and play soccer after our announcement. We actually have both announcements ( pregnancy and twins) on video. Tate is halarious to watch.

My pregnancy had a little bit of a rough start. Matt travels a for work and of course while out of town, I woke up bleeding heavily in bed. I was freaking out because I thought I had to if lost one or both of the babies. We knew of the risk with twin pregnancies but I had felt so confident that I was to have twins. It was really early in the morning, like 2am, I called my sister and her husband and a friend came to give me a blessing. I couldn't sleep that night. I bled for hours and was sick thinking about losing my babies.

That morning my friend went with me for support since matt was out of town. I was so relived to here not one, but two heartbeats. Both twins were fine however, I had a clot near one of the sacs that put the babies at a greater risk of miscarriaging.  The hard part was it would be likely that I would continue to bleed until the clot past and the clot may not pass until delivery.  Long story short, I bled a lot that first trimester and bad. There was one particular time I went to the dance studio sat and my car and suddenly blood gushed everywhere. It got all over my pants and seat. Each time this happened, I worried I was about to lose my babies, but every time they were ok. By second trimester the bleeding wasn't as bad. The clot was still there but it hadn't gone down in size and because the babies had grown bigger than the clot, there was less of a risk.

At some point we learned the sex of the twins. I was hoping for two boys or a girl and a boy. We at least needed one boy for Tate so that he wouldn't be to heartbroken about not getting his dog.  Obviously, we don't get to decide what we get and we learned both babies were girls. I was excited regardless, but felt bad for Tate. I told the kids we would announce the babies gender in a fun way, but I was a little worried how that would turn out now that both were girls.

I got two boxes and filled them with pink helium balloons. One box said Baby A and the other said Baby B. Tate and Addie each stood by a box and opened them at the same time. When the boxes were opened and pink balloons can put of both of them, Tate fell to the floor crying. We were recording everything that was taking place but Tate was so devistated that we had to turn off the camera. I think we deleted it too because it broke our hearts to see him so sad. He just really wanted a brother or dog and he was getting neither. Don't worry, now that the twins are here he is the BEST BIG BROTHER
and loves them so much!

By third trimester I was no longer bleeding but was pretty miserable. I have the shortest waist that the twins had nowhere to go. Both Tate and Addie had come early so I figured they had a good chance of coming early as well. By 31 weeks I started having some braxtonhicks. The doctor looked over everything and said I looked great and hadn't really dialating much.  Matt was to leave out of town to work the next day. That was his last trip he had scheduled until after the twins arrived. The doctor felt pretty confident that I would be fine, but gave me some steroids just in case. The steroids were to help the twins lungs develop faster in case they came early. Because things looked so good I told matt to go ahead with his last trip scheduled. He would only be gone a couple days.

So, that is about where I left off. I was writing my last entry the day before matt was to come home.  During that day I had several contractions, but told myself they would go away. By that evening I decided I would distract myself by writing in our blog about our year thus far. This was December 11, 2014. Tate had come home from a basketball game and wanted to feel the babies move. I wasn't feeling great but was happy he was getting excited so I let him push in my belly to feel the twins. . Finally I sent him to bed and decided the distraction wasn't working.  My contractions were still coming and going so  I decided I would just lay down and rest a bit to see if they would go away.   They had to eventually stop. My doctor was confident I would make at least 2 more weeks and matt was out of town.

By 1am I started worrying. My contractions were stronger and more consistent. I was now trying to decide if I just get in my car and drive myself to the hospital or call someone first to come stay with my kids while I went. I felt better about making sure someone was home with them in case on of the woke up and I wasn't there. I knew I could t call my parents because it would take too long for them to get there and my sister had just had a baby the month prior, so I didn't want to bother her. This left me with calling our good friends the Johns. By 1:30 I finally caved in and called them. I was so embarrassed but they were so great and headed right over. Brandi was even nice enough to drive me and Steve slept on our couch so that someone was with my sleeping kids.

As we were driving Brandi asked if I had called matt. She could see I was in a lot of pain. I told her no because I was sure I would be fine and they would just be sending me home. Luckily, she was thinking a lot clearer than me and told me to call him. I called matt and there were a couple times I had to put him on hold in between contractions. They were so painful! I told him not to worry though because I was sure they could get things under control once I got to the hospital. I think Brandi wasn't as sure.

When we got to the hospital Brandi stoped at the front doors and we began walking in. A security guard brought a wheel chair for me so I wouldn't have to walk anymore. After they got me in and situated the nurses seemed confident that they could stop my contractions. Matt wasn't suppose to get in the later that day or evening. He was worried he would miss their birth but I assured him they would probably be able to stop the contractions and it would work out. By that time, he decided he had better try to get a flight home sooner. Because he was so far away from home though there was no way he would be able to get in before 11:00 am. I told him not to worry and we would call him once they checked me out.

Ok, by now I was in soooo much pain. I think I started realizing I was actually going into labor. Someone finally came in to check my cervix and I was waiting for them to tell me they would be able to stop the contractions and/or at least hold things off until my husband arrived, but instead I was told the first baby was coming now!

Now I was stressing a little because not only was matt out of town, but so was my doctor who was to deliver the twins. I know would be lucky if the doctor in call would even make it on time. This freaked me out to say the least.

Thank goodness for Brandi who made sure I called my parents, in laws and matt again. By then I was  not thinking too clearly and just wanted my epidural!!!! I almost wasn't able to get one because I was too close to delivery.

My mom showed up right as they were willing me to the delivery room. They doctors were really great because they let both Brandi and mom come in. Usually they will only allow one person in since it is a high risk delibory with it being twins. Brandi was able to record the delivery for matt and give him a play by play of what was going on and my mom could be there to stand in for Matt. Even though I would had preferred matt to be there, it worked out great having both my mom and Brandi.
Lucky for me, the doctor on call from my OB office arrived right on time. Baby A came out and seemed to be doing really well. She was the smallest of the two. Baby B came out with the cord around her neck. They had a bit of a hard time getting her to breath but eventually were able to and rushed her to the nicu.

I wish I remembered the times of everything. I think we arrived to the hospital around 2 something and both twins were out by 3:15am. That just comes to show you how far I really was by the time I arrived at the hospital. Matt didn't arrive until around 11am. He missed the whole thing and felt horrible. We both had to sort of laugh at how it all worked out though because the scenario for us so well.

Both twins spent women time in the NICU. We named baby A Jadyn (well Tate named her) and baby B Ashtyn (Brandi and matt actually can easily up with that name on a camping trip we went in together). It was sort of funny he Brandi was part of the naming process and delivery.

I can't believe it has almost been 2 years since these events. Life sure has changed. It has been an adjustment to say the least. Even between the and now so much has happened. Tate was found to have an incredibly beautiful voice and now takes voice lessons. He is so talented in music and continues to play soccer and golf.

Addie had a successful year on herncomp team and decided to work even harder the following year. She did her first solo and worked her way to the top team this year. I'm amazed at all Shen has done at her age.

Ashtyn and Jadyn are super busy. They are running around destroying any clean spot in the house. I can't keep up with them. Ashtyn looks exactly like matt as a toddler. I think her personality is a lot like matts ad well. In many ways she is a mini Tate. She loves to play and be wherever the action is. She loves to play and tease, just like tate.

Jadyn is defiantly more fisety. She looks a lot like me as a toddler but is a total Addie when it comes to personality. She is defiantly more cautious and scared of things. She also likes to push bottoms and see what she can get away with. It's been fun seeing how different they are and watching them interact more with each other.

I wish I could say they play all day together but I think a majority of the day is fighting, biting and hair pulling. It does warm  my heart though when they play well. It is the cutest thing to see them learn how to share and give hugs to each other. Usually the hugs are given to tell the other twin sorry for being mean, but it's still super cute.

Way back in my last post, inmentioned a little about my dad and his cancer possibly coming back. This has probably been on of the hardetvthings these last two years. We learned my dad's cancer has come back, gotten in his blood and moved to the lungs. Sadly, there isn't much we can do. Fornnow, the doctors are able to control it while it's controllable, but only time will tell us how long that is. We have been so blessed that these past two years have been fairly easy. He has had some procedures and a few scary things, but overall has really been able to enjoy histhe health he has. I'm so glad he is living it up while he can and spending that time with my mom and family. I will try to do better at keeping this updated regarding that.


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